HHH-9204 HHH-9205 : Restore AbstractCollectionPersister.doProcessQueuedOps() removed by HHH-9078; deprecate method added by HHH-9078

(cherry picked from commit 420296fd267c8bcf9501896fcc17446c55b1d272)

Conflicts:
	hibernate-core/src/main/java/org/hibernate/persister/collection/AbstractCollectionPersister.java