PHP-1107: Split PHP-1099 tests and update for connect timeout behavior

Connection-related messages will use connectTimeoutMS (default: one second) instead of socketTimeoutMS (default: 30 seconds).
PHP-1107: Update PHP-683 test for new connectTimeoutMS default and logging
PHP-1107: Split testing with/without timeout options
Use equal connect/socket timeouts for legacy log tests

This avoids major adjustments to the expected output when timeouts would be swapped for connection-related operations.