Upstream: improved subrequest logging.

To ensure proper logging make sure to set current_request in all event
handlers, including resolve, ssl handshake, cache lock wait timer and
aio read handlers.  A macro ngx_http_set_log_request() introduced to
simplify this.
Cache: proper wakeup of subrequests.

In case of a cache lock timeout and in the aio handler we now call
r->write_event_handler() instead of a connection write handler,
to make sure to run appropriate subrequest.  Previous code failed to run
inactive subrequests and hence resulted in suboptimal behaviour, see
report by Yichun Zhang:

http://mailman.nginx.org/pipermail/nginx-devel/2013-October/004435.html

(Infinite hang claimed in the report seems impossible without 3rd party
modules, as subrequests will be eventually woken up by the postpone filter.)