child_process: accept uid/gid everywhere

Accept uid/gid option in every execute/spawn call (including
cluster.fork). Add documentation where needed.

fix #7881

Signed-off-by: Trevor Norris <trev.norris@gmail.com>
tls: better error reporting at cert validation

fix #7417

Signed-off-by: Fedor Indutny <fedor@indutny.com>
deps: cherry-pick eca441b2 from OpenSSL

Original commit message:

    bn_exp.c: fix x86_64-specific crash with one-word modulus.

    PR: #3397

Signed-off-by: Fedor Indutny <fedor@indutny.com>