ISPN-4869 Reduce load and hanging produced by paralell iteration test
ISPN-4869 Reduce load and hanging produced by paralell iteration test

Replace abort() with reset()
ISPN-4675 Missing server configuration for remote executor thread pool

Add server configuration for the remote command executor and the total order executor.
Replace sfl4j-jdk14 dependency with sfl4j-log4j12 so that jboss logging
writes to log4j in the cdi module (and dependents).

Add more debugging around cache listeners. It seems Class.getMethods()
sometimes returns synthetic methods created by overriding a generic method.