[XNIO-226] Do not resolve host name on socket accept
[XNIO-226] Do not resolve host name on socket connect
[XNIO-226] Better fix
Fix tests on JDK8
Cleanup pom.xml & update dependencies

 - byteman upgrade makes it work much better on windows
 - remove mac osx jvm hacks, as since jdk7 jvm is the same as on other platforms.
Temporarily disable JSSE tests
Actually ignore the one that hangs...
More ignores
Upgrade JMock to 2.6.0 and use its new functionalities
More ignoring
Fix count calculation for certain cases of initiateTransfer()
More ignores
More tolerant provider load failure management
Better version detection, some minor fixes