Building new records with enum scopes now works as expected

Previously, this would give an `ArgumentError`:

   class Issue < ActiveRecord::Base
     enum :status, [:open, :finished]
   end

   Issue.open.build # => ArgumentError: '0' is not a valid status
   Issue.open.create # => ArgumentError: '0' is not a valid status

PR #13542 muted the error, but the issue remains. This commit fixes
the issue by allowing the enum value to be written directly via the
setter:

   Issue.new.status = 0 # This now sets status to :open

Assigning a value directly via the setter like this is not part of the
documented public API, so users should not rely on this behavior.

Closes #13530.