pass extra file to child process as status handler

When stdout/stderr is closed prematurely, the proxy's writes to stdout/stderr
(i.e. `log.Errorf/log.Printf`) will returns with EPIPE error, and go runtime
will terminate the proxy when stdout/stderr writes trigger 10 EPIPE errors.

instead of using stdout/stderr as the status handler, we pass an extra file to
the child process and write `0\n` or `1\nerror message` to it and close it
after. This allow the child process to handle stdout/stderr as normal.

Docker-DCO-1.1-Signed-off-by: Daniel, Dao Quang Minh <dqminh89@gmail.com> (github: dqminh)
Merge pull request #8450 from dqminh/fix-proxy-exit

dont close proxy's stdout/stderr prematurely