[bp/r51991][FIX]Improve feedback to poster (when anonymous) in the case of comments moderation enabled. Fixes http://dev.tiki.org/item5310 . However, there is still some missing feedback when the poster is a registered user (comment just dissapears after clicking at "post" and no feedback to the user).

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