Enable properly nested addons

See #2354 for context.

This adds a `parentAddon` context for any nested addons included in a project. The `parentAddon` is supplied to each child addon on the addon instance as well as passed into the `included` hook.

The child addon is then free to determine if it should modify the `parentAddon` or the `app` from within the `included` hook.

This enables addons to have their own isolated dependencies which don't interfere with the root app's preprocessors. I.e. I can write my addon in Coffeescript, and the parent app doesn't need to depend on the Coffeescript addon directly.
Yes, the addon detection tests kinda suck. Everytime we add a new one they break.  It is VERY VERY annoying.  Can you add an issue to refactor them so we don't loose track of that (but it doesn't have to be in scope for this PR)?