fix: OverlayWatched alignment on select

When view is Thumbnails and file is selected/unselected the overlay
horizontal alignment is off and looks funky.
this fixes that.
[osx/docs] - update README.osx - we support building with Xcode 5.1.1 on Mavericks 10.9.x against SDK 10.8 and 10.9
[infomanager] turns out listitem properties are case insensitive. fixes missing fanart on some skins.

We store properties we're looking up in CGUIInfoManager::m_listItemProperties case sensitive, but the map in CGUIListItem is
handled case-insensitive.
Merge pull request #4939 from uNiversaI/overlayfix

fix: Cosmetic OverlayWatched alignment on select
videoplayer: adapt lateness detection and dropping to buffering
video player: present correct pts to user for a/v sync (after buffering in renderer)
renderer: bump buffers to 5
videoplayer: update frametime, it might change due to fps detection
videoplayer: give streams with invalid fps a chance for fps detection
dvdplayer: allow rewinding at end of stream, do a seek after rewind
dvdplayer: observe pts counter overflow
dvdplayer: avoid short screen flicker caused by unnecessary reconfigure of renderer
vdpau: advanced settings for auto deinterlacing
player: fix rewind
OMXPlayer: some caching fixes for pvr
fix incorrect display of fps when dr kicks in
ActiveAE: slightly reduce buffer size
Revert "vdpau: comment some features that will be added later"

This reverts commit e00b4f65864d623ab4d2e9e5c06db138e661f1cf.
ffmpeg demuxer: faster channel change for PVR addons without internal demuxing
(such as MediaPortal, ArgusTV, MythTV, NextPVR)
Credits: FernetMenta, Davilla, Popcornmix, Whaupt
ffmpeg demuxer: make sure we start mpegts video with an i-frame