The object read() needs to optionally specify forceRead as well so that it
can be used by the Swing layer.
Finders need to read a fresh copy of data when they are opened,
but Element tab panes should only refresh the sublists of data,
not the reference objects.  Pickers shouldn't refresh data at all.
The ViewEdit window needs to reload the object with a fresh copy
unless it's a new instance as soon as they are opened.