Remove legacy option dests from all non-jvm-y tasks.

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Reviewed at https://rbcommons.com/s/twitter/r/1341/
Remove legacy dests from jvm task options.

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Reviewed at https://rbcommons.com/s/twitter/r/1343/
Sync of https://github.com/pantsbuild/pants/commit/dba57c79e7a38ae554d0317c99201eaf2d3aae86