Account for scalarization costs in BasicTTI::getMemoryOpCost for extending vector loads

When a vector type legalizes to a larger vector type, and the target does not
support the associated extending load (or truncating store), then legalization
will scalarize the load (or store) resulting in an associated scalarization
cost.  BasicTTI::getMemoryOpCost needs to account for this.

Between this, and r205487, PowerPC on the P7 with VSX enabled shows:

MultiSource/Benchmarks/PAQ8p/paq8p: 43% speedup
SingleSource/Benchmarks/BenchmarkGame/puzzle: 51% speedup
SingleSource/UnitTests/Vectorizer/gcc-loops 28% speedup

(some of these are new; some of these, such as PAQ8p, just reverse regressions
that VSX support would trigger)