Allow config options to deliver all emails async (through activejob)

By setting config.action_mailer.deliver_all_emails_later to true all
emails will be sent trough activejob (a call to  `deliver` will be
forwarded to `deliver_later`).

This is very usefull when people will adopt activejob. Emails are sent
from a lot of places in the code and nobody wants to search for them. 
There are also emails sent from gems (ex: devise) that needs to be 
handled.
Does anyone have any suggestions for alternative names here?

For a start, "emails" sounds out of place... but "all" seems to be a bit of a misnomer too.

The best I can come up with is `default_delivery = :now | :later`. But maybe that's too vague?