insert only_server_list after key_list

git-svn-id: svn://fountainhead.talkpoint.com/raingutter/trunk@13018 940247f8-a3eb-dc11-81c7-0019d144f6e4
bugfix: don't try to update timestamps on things that were just deleted

git-svn-id: svn://fountainhead.talkpoint.com/raingutter/trunk@13019 940247f8-a3eb-dc11-81c7-0019d144f6e4