Associate default user address in pre-transition callback

Two advantages:

  1. Centralizes this logic, as we want this to happen whether you create an order from frontend, backend or API.
  2. Waits until the last possible moment to assign an address and will thus get the most recent default address, rather than the one at the time the cart was created.

This is as an alternative to [#4789](https://github.com/spree/spree/pull/4789) and based off the IRC discussion with @JDutil, @athal7 and @huoxito. cc/ @nhippenmeyer
yeah I'm not sure, was just curious, haven't had a chance to merge and run locally yet. Just saying it would be pretty awesome if we give the same name to the new Order accessor and the input name. irrc I think rails offers a helper for things like that can't remember it right now.