More work on the JSON/JSONB user documentation.

Document existence operator adequately; fix obsolete claim that no
Unicode-escape semantic checks happen on input (it's still true for
json, but not for jsonb); improve examples; assorted wordsmithing.
Rename min_recovery_apply_delay to recovery_min_apply_delay.

Per discussion, this seems like a more consistent choice of name.

Fabrízio de Royes Mello, after a suggestion by Peter Eisentraut;
some additional documentation wordsmithing by me