SPARK-3811 [CORE] More robust / standard Utils.deleteRecursively, Utils.createTempDir

I noticed a few issues with how temp directories are created and deleted:

*Minor*

* Guava's `Files.createTempDir()` plus `File.deleteOnExit()` is used in many tests to make a temp dir, but `Utils.createTempDir()` seems to be the standard Spark mechanism
* Call to `File.deleteOnExit()` could be pushed into `Utils.createTempDir()` as well, along with this replacement
* _I messed up the message in an exception in `Utils` in SPARK-3794; fixed here_

*Bit Less Minor*

* `Utils.deleteRecursively()` fails immediately if any `IOException` occurs, instead of trying to delete any remaining files and subdirectories. I've observed this leave temp dirs around. I suggest changing it to continue in the face of an exception and throw one of the possibly several exceptions that occur at the end.
* `Utils.createTempDir()` will add a JVM shutdown hook every time the method is called. Even if the subdir is the parent of another parent dir, since this check is inside the hook. However `Utils` manages a set of all dirs to delete on shutdown already, called `shutdownDeletePaths`. A single hook can be registered to delete all of these on exit. This is how Tachyon temp paths are cleaned up in `TachyonBlockManager`.

I noticed a few other things that might be changed but wanted to ask first:

* Shouldn't the set of dirs to delete be `File`, not just `String` paths?
* `Utils` manages the set of `TachyonFile` that have been registered for deletion, but the shutdown hook is managed in `TachyonBlockManager`. Should this logic not live together, and not in `Utils`? it's more specific to Tachyon, and looks a slight bit odd to import in such a generic place.

Author: Sean Owen <sowen@cloudera.com>

Closes #2670 from srowen/SPARK-3811 and squashes the following commits:

071ae60 [Sean Owen] Update per @vanzin's review
da0146d [Sean Owen] Make Utils.deleteRecursively try to delete all paths even when an exception occurs; use one shutdown hook instead of one per method call to delete temp dirs
3a0faa4 [Sean Owen] Standardize on Utils.createTempDir instead of Files.createTempDir
[SPARK-3654][SQL] Unifies SQL and HiveQL parsers

This PR is a follow up of #2590, and tries to introduce a top level SQL parser entry point for all SQL dialects supported by Spark SQL.

A top level parser `SparkSQLParser` is introduced to handle the syntaxes that all SQL dialects should recognize (e.g. `CACHE TABLE`, `UNCACHE TABLE` and `SET`, etc.). For all the syntaxes this parser doesn't recognize directly, it fallbacks to a specified function that tries to parse arbitrary input to a `LogicalPlan`. This function is typically another parser combinator like `SqlParser`. DDL syntaxes introduced in #2475 can be moved to here.

The `ExtendedHiveQlParser` now only handle Hive specific extensions.

Also took the chance to refactor/reformat `SqlParser` for better readability.

Author: Cheng Lian <lian.cs.zju@gmail.com>

Closes #2698 from liancheng/gen-sql-parser and squashes the following commits:

ceada76 [Cheng Lian] Minor styling fixes
9738934 [Cheng Lian] Minor refactoring, removes optional trailing ";" in the parser
bb2ab12 [Cheng Lian] SET property value can be empty string
ce8860b [Cheng Lian] Passes test suites
e86968e [Cheng Lian] Removes debugging code
8bcace5 [Cheng Lian] Replaces digit.+ to rep1(digit) (Scala style checking doesn't like it)
d15d54f [Cheng Lian] Unifies SQL and HiveQL parsers
[SPARK-3824][SQL] Sets in-memory table default storage level to MEMORY_AND_DISK

Using `MEMORY_AND_DISK` as default storage level for in-memory table caching. Due to the in-memory columnar representation, recomputing an in-memory cached table partitions can be very expensive.

Author: Cheng Lian <lian.cs.zju@gmail.com>

Closes #2686 from liancheng/spark-3824 and squashes the following commits:

35d2ed0 [Cheng Lian] Removes extra space
1ab7967 [Cheng Lian] Reduces test data size to fit DiskStore.getBytes()
ba565f0 [Cheng Lian] Maks CachedBatch serializable
07f0204 [Cheng Lian] Sets in-memory table default storage level to MEMORY_AND_DISK