Fix unportable setvbuf() usage in initdb.

In yesterday's commit 2dc4f011fd61501cce507be78c39a2677690d44b, I tried
to force buffering of stdout/stderr in initdb to be what it is by
default when the program is run interactively on Unix (since that's how
most manual testing is done).  This tripped over the fact that Windows
doesn't support _IOLBF mode.  We dealt with that a long time ago in
syslogger.c by falling back to unbuffered mode on Windows.  Export that
solution in port.h and use it in initdb.

Back-patch to 8.4, like the previous commit.
Initialize tsId and dbId fields in WAL record of COMMIT PREPARED.

Commit dd428c79 added dbId and tsId to the xl_xact_commit struct but missed
that prepared transaction commits reuse that struct. Fix that.

Because those fields were left unitialized, replaying a commit prepared WAL
record in a hot standby node would fail to remove the relcache init file.
That can lead to "could not open file" errors on the standby. Relcache init
file only needs to be removed when a system table/index is rewritten in the
transaction using two phase commit, so that should be rare in practice. In
HEAD, the incorrect dbId/tsId values are also used for filtering in logical
replication code, causing the transaction to always be filtered out.

Analysis and fix by Andres Freund. Backpatch to 9.0 where hot standby was
introduced.