Avoid "Package foo/* listed for update is not installed" error

Previously 'compose update foo/*' gave an error
"Package foo/* listed for update is not installed. Ignoring" even if some foo/*
packages were present; however the packages *would* then be updated as
requested. This removes the false error iff foo/SOMEPACKAGE is required.
Merge remote-tracking branch 'parsingphase/avoidFalseWildcardUpdateWarning'
CS fixes, refs #2750