Defer searching for opm-parser

The "opm-parser" module is expected to become dependent upon the ERT
library.  Defer searching for the parser module until we've
established whether or not ERT is availble.

Suggested by: @andlaus
Elucidate description string for opm-parser.

The 'opm-parser' module is (currently) designed to parse ECL-type
simulation models.  Reflect that fact in its description.
Only look for BOOST´s unit test framework module if not already found. Sync version with rest of system
Merge pull request #99 from bska/099_cmake

Synchronise build system with OPM-Core