IPO: Add use-list-order verifier

Add a -verify-use-list-order pass, which shuffles use-list order, writes
to bitcode, reads back, and verifies that the (shuffled) order matches.

  - The utility functions live in lib/IR/UseListOrder.cpp.

  - Moved (and renamed) the command-line option to enable writing
    use-lists, so that this pass can return early if the use-list orders
    aren't being serialized.

It's not clear that this pass is the right direction long-term (perhaps
a separate tool instead?), but short-term it's a great way to test the
use-list order prototype.  I've added an XFAIL-ed testcase that I'm
hoping to get working pretty quickly.

This is part of PR5680.