ISPN-4166 useSynchronization should be disabled by default

Only the programmatic configuration is affected.
The default is now equivalent to NON_DURABLE_XA in the xml
configuration (i.e. recovery must be enabled explicitly).
ISPN-4825 Add JMX/DMR operation to change the availability mode of the partition

Add availability change operation to LocalTopologyManager, AdvancedCache,
and the Cache JMX MBean.
Move the CacheAvailability DMR attribute from the metrics to the resources and make it writable