reaction calc in TensorMechanicsAction etc #4190
Pass executable explicitly (#4144)

for some tests the executable detection does not work
Merge pull request #4199 from leizhao987/ReactionCalculation_4190

Reaction calculation 4190
Merge pull request #4221 from dschwen/fixajtest_4144

Pass executable explicitly
Prepend options instead of append
closes #4225
fixup examples
closes #4277
Merge pull request #4226 from permcody/arg_order

Prepend options instead of append