OCL: added runtime flags for debugging

Added environment parameters to control execution of OpenCL code:
- `OPENCV_OPENCL_RAISE_ERROR` - call `CV_Assert` to validate success of OpenCL runtime calls (raise on error);
- `OPENCV_OPENCL_PERF_CHECK_BYPASS` - to bypass performance checks and call OpenCL optimization in the most cases (usage example in arithm.cpp & stat.cpp files);
Ok. Actually users should not use this macro. It is only for internal functions implementations, so I will try to move it into some internal files like `ocl_defs.hpp` with CV_ prefix