[OptionsResolver] fix count() and exceptions

| Q             | A
| ------------- | ---
| Bug fix?      | yes
| New feature?  | no
| BC breaks?    | no
| Deprecations? | no
| Tests pass?   | yes
| Fixed tickets | -
| License       | MIT
| Doc PR        | -

Please see commits.
I'd prefer if you kept the specific message ("Default values cannot be set") in this and the other exceptions. The remainder ("from a lazy option or normalizer") is good!