Add a function that adds an entry to a menuq, normalizing a common code
path; from Tiago Cunha.
 - remove redundant range check for buttons in conf_bind_mouse.
 - make conf_bind_kbd return error on non-matches to match what
   conf_bind_mouse does.
 - rename some variables while here for clarity.
 - constify bind and cmd.

from Tiago Cunha.
constify and rename some confusing variables around cmdq.
Use argument to pass down flags for mousefunc cyclegroup; removes
rcyclegroup wrapper need - now similar to kbfunc.
merge KBFLAG_NEEDCLIENT and MOUSEBIND_CTX_*; brings kbfunc and mousefunc
bits even closer.
Save the ptr position before lowering via kbd, so as to be able to cycle
back with the pointer in the right place; matches behaviour when
lowering via the mouse function.
Sprinkle a few more const; from Tiago Cunha.
Somewhat streamline event loop/restart/quit handling; most notable
change allows a restart to trigger proper teardown first, even though
teardown is not (yet) complete.

After some discussion with oga@nicotinebsd.org regarding a more
complicated version/idea.