Added versions to toggle the default command line options

`VibeDisableHelpOption` disables
- h|help

`VibeDisablePrivilegeOptions` disables
- uid|user
- gid|group

`VibeDisableVerbosityOptions` disables
- verbose|v
- vverbose|vv
- vvv
- vvvv

`VibeDisableDistServerOptions` disables
- disthost|d
- distport

`VibeDisableDefaultOptions` disables all the default options
Changed all uses of `getOption` to `readOption`

I think vibe internals shouldn't use compatibility aliases