[TASK] Fix TYPO3 6.1+ compat, remove dependencies to EXT:fed

I made all the fixes for TYPO3 6.1+ and completely removed the dependencies to EXT:fed
Where I could find a fitting ViewHelper in current EXT:vhs, I used that one, where I couldn't, I copied the ViewHelper to EXT:notify. Furthermore I copied needed services from EXT:fed to EXT:notify.
Ah here we go - VHS already a dependency. Templates can then be updated to use the mentioned ViewHelpers from VHS and the ported classes can be deleted :)