[CMake] Move -stdlib=libc++ handling into its own file.

r200744 moved this into cmake/config-ix.cmake, so that it would happen very
early in the build process. However, standalone builds of Clang and other
external projects never include this file (which is correct).

Now, -stdlib=libc++ and the LLVM_COMPILER_IS_GCC_COMPATIBLE option are
both set in a new include file, HandleLLVMStdlib, which is included by
both config-ix.cmake and HandleLLVMOptions.cmake. This preserves existing
behavior for projects relying on HandleLLVMOptions and still does the
right thing for builds of LLVM itself.