Add stop method to EmbeddedCassandraService

patch by lyubent; reviewed by slebresne for CASSANDRA-7595
Merge branch 'cassandra-1.2' into cassandra-2.0

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1.0

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.1.0' into cassandra-2.1
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.1' into trunk