Use SendMessage() call

OT still has some remnants of a SSL connection system that was removed in favor
of ZeroMQ. The OTServerConnection class does a lot of stuff that may have made
sense earlier but can be removed and simplified now.

This is the first step of a larger cleanup.

The old code had this repeated pattern

m_pClient->SetFocusToServerAndNym(*pServer, *pNym, m_pTransportCallback);
m_pClient->ProcessMessageOut(theMessage);
return m_pClient->CalcReturnVal(lRequestNumber);

and a variant that does not have last call to CalcReturnVal()

I replaced these two variants two atomic methods

* SendMessage(OTServerContract*, OTPseudonym*, OTMessage&, lRequestNumber)
* SendMessage(OTServerContract*, OTPseudonym*, OTmessage&)

The other place where SetFocusToServerAndNym is called now is in opentxs-script
which I will do separately.
Merge pull request #395 from OttoAllmendinger/pr-otapi-sendmessage

Use SendMessage() call
Fixed mixup between empty() and clear() so memory is realesed correctly