Add a stern warning about dedup

Users intending to use dedup should be clearly advised about
its memory requirements and the risks involved.

Thanx to Sachiru for comments and suggestions.

Signed-off-by: Turbo Fredriksson <turbo@bayour.com>
Signed-off-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Closes #2754