[SPARK-2454] Do not ship spark home to Workers

When standalone Workers launch executors, they inherit the Spark home set by the driver. This means if the worker machines do not share the same directory structure as the driver node, the Workers will attempt to run scripts (e.g. bin/compute-classpath.sh) that do not exist locally and fail. This is a common scenario if the driver is launched from outside of the cluster.

The solution is to simply not pass the driver's Spark home to the Workers. This PR further makes an attempt to avoid overloading the usages of `spark.home`, which is now only used for setting executor Spark home on Mesos and in python.

This is based on top of #1392 and originally reported by @YanTangZhai. Tested on standalone cluster.