vo_opengl: Ignore approx-gamma for BT.2020-CL

The details of the non-linear transformation from/to BT.2020's constant
luminance system don't really make sense with any other gamma curve,
since changing the gamma curve completely breaks the chroma channels.
w32_common: allow window resizing with --no-border
chmap: add a 7.1(rear) layout name

This is common on Apple systems so it's handy to have a label for it.
chmap_sel: add multichannel fallback heuristic

Instead of just failing during channel map selection, try to select a close
layout that makes most sense and upmix/downmix to that instead of failing AO
initialization. The heuristic is rather simple, and uses the following steps:

1) If mono is required always prefer stereo to a multichannel upmix.
2) Search for an upmix that is an exact superset of the required channel map.
3) Search for a downmix that is the exact subset of the required channel map.
4) Search for either an upmix or downmix that is the closest (minimum difference
   of channels) to the required channel map.
ao: add debug log with the detected channel maps

This could be helpful with bug reports.
build: fix linking with --enable-static-build
ao_alsa: print channel map if setting it fails

This message is printed when the audio device advertised a channel map,
but couldn't set it - which is probably a dmix bug (we'll never know,
ALSA doesn't take bug reports).

Print the requested map, so that the user (maybe) can make a connection
when seeing the message and the actually used channel map, which might
be less confusing. Or at least less useless.
ao_portaudio: remove this audio output

It's just completely useless. We have good native support for all 3
desktop platforms, and ao_sdl or ao_openal as fallbacks.
player: make --shuffle/--merge-files affect runtime loaded playlists

Until now, these options took effect only at program start. This could
be confusing when e.g. doing "mpv list.m3u --shuffle". Make them always
take effect when a playlist is loaded either via a playlist file, or
with the "loadlist" command.
player: filter tags, add --display-tags option

This attempts to increase user-friendliness by excluding useless tags.
It should be especially helpful with mp4 files, because the FFmpeg mp4
demuxer adds tons of completely useless information to the metadata.

Fixes #1403.
command: add filtered-metadata property

Goes in hand with the previous commit; the main purpose is to easily
show on OSD what is shown on terminal.
demux_mf: move mf.c contents to demux_mf.c

There's no reason why parts of this demuxer would be in a separate
source file. The existence of this code is already somewhat questionable
anyway, so it may as well be dumped into a single file.

Even stranger that demux.c included mf.h for no reason (it was an
artifact from 2002 when the architecture was uncleaner).
demux_mkv: reduce log noise

This message can happen a lot for mkv files which index clusters in the
seekhead (which is also broken non-sense, but that's a different story).

Also remove a duplicate define from matroska.h.
options: expand ~ for the include option

Fixes #1406