Added an option to throw an exception when a connect fails instead of ex...

...itting the jvm using System.exit()

It is incredibly annoying when creating a webapp that handles multiple teamspeak connections that the entire JVM exits if 1 server goes down. I've made the option configurable, but to be honest, System.exit [rarely makes sense](http://www.javapractices.com/topic/TopicAction.do?Id=86).