Node API: add options parameter to require() require.makeDefault()

Closes #1162.

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I'm unsure how to properly add a test for `require.makeDefault()`, as there is no way to "resetDefault()". Should we create a method for that as well?
I'm just unsure about this change. If a user sets options here and the code contains `require()` without options then what happens?