Add read/modify/write functionality to Put() api

Summary: The application can set a callback function, which is applied on the previous value. And calculates the new value. This new value can be set, either inplace, if the previous value existed in memtable, and new value is smaller than previous value. Otherwise the new value is added normally.

Test Plan: fbmake. Added unit tests. All unit tests pass.

Reviewers: dhruba, haobo

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: sdong, kailiu, xinyaohu, sumeet, leveldb

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D14745
DB::Put() to estimate write batch data size needed and pre-allocate buffer

Summary:
In one of CPU profiles, we see some CPU costs of string::reserve() inside Batch.Put(). This patch should be able to reduce some of the costs by allocating sufficient buffer before hand.

Since it is a trivial percentage of CPU costs, I didn't find a way to show the improvement in one of the benchmarks. I'll deploy it to same application and do the same CPU profiling to make sure those CPU costs are reduced.

Test Plan: make all check

Reviewers: haobo, kailiu, igor

Reviewed By: haobo

CC: leveldb, nkg-

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D15135