[ActivityManager] Finish the failed-to-pause activity

Symptom:
In some scenario, the mPausingActivity may be replaced by other activity.
When previous activity paused, the completePausedLocked() won't be invoked
because it is no longer the mPausingActivity. If the activity is also
pending to finish, it would never be done because the activity kept in
PAUSING state. Since the activity's window also remain visible and is
above on Wallpaper, user would see it when back to home.

Solution:
Finish the failed-to-pause activity if the activity is pending to finish

A Real Case:
(1) Screen turn off
(2) The top activity T1 crashed
(3) When finish activity T1, the next top activity T2 will be scheduled
    to resume and pause (due to screen off).
(4) The activity T2 is also set to finishing due to T1 crashed.
(5) Before T2 paused and before paused timeout occurs, there has a new
    process started which brings up the next top activity T3 to resume
    and pause. So the pausing activity is now replaced.
(6) When activity T2 paused, it cannot completed the pause operation.
    T2 will remain in PAUSING and finishing state with its window visible.
    The process won't be killed because the oomadj stays at 1 (Visible).

Change-Id: Ib10fded891b21c774b26a93071c717fa50516e22