[fix][#33773] dates for SQL Server. Fixes #3576

1032 removed ','
1034 replaced nulldate with '1900-01-01'

nulldate -> 1970-01-01

Null date > 1900-01-01 for mssql/azure
[imp][#33681] Updates to JUpdater. Fixes #3542

Add in a try catch and remove the die

Change instances of Exception to RuntimeException
[fix][#33620] User selector goes wrong in user id validation. Fixes #3459

Under some circumstances the "User selector" implicitly assumes that "no selection" means "user id = 0", which is a valid value to be saved in the database.
This brings to paradoxes, for example you can inserts records with user id = 0 even when the "user id" is a required filed.
For example: Go to User > User Notes and create a new note. There is no user selected, but it is a required field, as shown by the asterisk. Fill out "Subject" and "Note", but leave empty the user. Press the "Save & Close" button. You have just created a user note which is not associated to any user.

This is caused by an useless type cast to int, which turns invalid values like an empty string to 0 which is a valid id.

Under different circumstances the id is handled correctly simply by avoiding the type cast to int. For example, repeat the steps above, but before saving the record, press the user selection button. Once in the users list clear the selection by pressing the button "- No User -". This time the record won't be saved and a the message "Field required: User ID" will be displayed.

Tracker: http://joomlacode.org/gf/project/joomla/tracker/?action=TrackerItemEdit&tracker_item_id=33620&start=0

In addition, this pull request fixes another potential bug:
when $this->value == 'CURRENT', the current user id is used to load the table, but the hidden field below ignores the loaded value and it continue using the string "current" stored in $this->value which of course is not a valid user id.
[fix][#31404] Joomla! Memcached session problem when the Memcached daemon uses a non-standard port. Fixes #1473

Added config fields for session_memcached_server_host and port

Fixing cache & session memcache(d) issues

Fixing double/none memcache fields in some templates