Fix WAL replay of locking an updated tuple

We were resetting the tuple's HEAP_HOT_UPDATED flag as well as t_ctid on
WAL replay of a tuple-lock operation, which is incorrect when the tuple
is already updated.

Back-patch to 9.3.  The clearing of both header elements was there
previously, but since no update could be present on a tuple that was
being locked, it was harmless.

Bug reported by Peter Geoghegan and Greg Stark in
CAM3SWZTMQiCi5PV5OWHb+bYkUcnCk=O67w0cSswPvV7XfUcU5g@mail.gmail.com and
CAM-w4HPTOeMT4KP0OJK+mGgzgcTOtLRTvFZyvD0O4aH-7dxo3Q@mail.gmail.com
respectively; diagnosis by Andres Freund.
doc: bgw_main takes a Datum argument, not void *.

Per report from James Harper.