std: Improve pipe functionality

* os::pipe() now returns `IoResult<os::Pipe>`
* os::pipe() is now unsafe because it does not arrange for deallocation of file
  descriptors
* PipeStream::pair() has been added. This is a safe method to get a pair of
  pipes.
* Dealing with pipes in native process bindings have been improved to be more
  robust in the face of failure and intermittent errors. This converts a few
  fail!() situations to Err situations.

cc #13538
Closes #14724
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This seems like it might be useful more generally, e.g.`FdCloser` with a `.cancel` method.