lib/connect: restrict IP/TCP options to said sockets

This patch prepares for adding UNIX domain sockets support.

TCP_NODELAY and TCP_KEEPALIVE are specific to TCP/IP sockets, so do not
apply these to other socket types. bindlocal only works for IP sockets
(independent of TCP/UDP), so filter that out too for other types.

Signed-off-by: Peter Wu <peter@lekensteyn.nl>
sws: move away from IPv4/IPv4-only assumption

Instead of depending the socket domain type on use_ipv6, specify the
domain type (AF_INET / AF_INET6) as variable. An enum is used here with
switch to avoid compiler warnings in connect_to, complaining that rc
is possibly undefined (which is not possible as socket_domain is
always set).

Besides abstracting the socket type, make the debugging messages be
independent on IP (introduce location_str which points to "port XXXXX").
Rename "ipv_inuse" to "socket_type" and tighten the scope (main).

Signed-off-by: Peter Wu <peter@lekensteyn.nl>