New non-stacking ToastDisplayer implementation

A rehash of PR #27.

This adds an interface for ToastDisplayer.

It deprecates Toaster, but enhances it by upgrading it to use the new interface (without breaking API).

It adds two implementations of ToastDisplayer:
- a regular one, like Toaster, but with the ability to cancel all preceding toasts
- a non-stacking one, which will only show the last toast

yeah I realised that when I got to the factory, erm you could do but tempted to leave but probably should package them (see if this bites us in the ass)