move htaccess.tpl from phpini/tpl to apache/tpl; set htaccess.tpl only have info related to secondary php; move php_value and _flag from .htaccess to prefork.inc; set include prefork.inc to apache domain configs; set nginx configs to no limit_conn for localhost; add deny localhost for BanListMask in hiawatha; set serverlimit = MaxClients for prefork and itk; fix fixphp script related to .htaccess