chan_iax2: Block unnecessary control frames to/from the wire.

Establishing an IAX2 call between Asterisk v1.4 and v1.8 (or later)
results in an unexpected call disconnect.  The problem happens because
newer values in the enum ast_control_frame_type are not consistent between
the branch versions of Asterisk.

For example:
1) v1.4 calls v1.8 (or later) using IAX2

2) v1.8 answers and sends a connected line update control frame.  (on v1.8
AST_CONTROL_CONNECTED_LINE = 22)

3) v1.4 receives the control frame as an end-of-q (on v1.4
AST_CONTROL_END_OF_Q = 22)

4) v1.4 disconnects the call once the receive queue becomes empty.

Several things are done by this patch to fix the problem and attempt to
prevent it from happening again in the future:

* Added a warning at the definition of enum ast_control_frame_type about
how to add new control frame values.

* Made block sending and receiving control frames that have no reason to
go over the wire.

* Extended the connectedline iax.conf parameter to also include the
redirecting information updates.

* Updated the connectedline iax.conf parameter documentation to include a
notice that the parameter must be "no" when the peer is an Asterisk v1.4
instance.

(closes issue AST-1302)

Review: https://reviewboard.asterisk.org/r/3174/
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