Improve tab-completion of DROP and ALTER ENABLE/DISABLE on triggers and rules.

At "DROP RULE/TRIGGER triggername ON ...", tab-complete tables that have
a rule/trigger with that name.

At "ALTER TABLE tablename ENABLE/DISABLE TRIGGER/RULE ...", tab-complete to
rules/triggers on that table. Previously, we would tab-complete to all
rules or triggers, not just those that are on that table.

Also, filter out internal RI triggers from the list. You can't DROP them,
and enabling/disabling them is such a rare (and dangerous) operation that
it seems better to hide them.

Andreas Karlsson, reviewed by Ian Barwick.