[SPARK-2609] Log thread ID when spilling ExternalAppendOnlyMap

It's useful to know whether one thread is constantly spilling or multiple threads are spilling relatively infrequently. Right now everything looks a little jumbled and we can't tell which lines belong to the same thread. For instance:

```
06:14:37 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (194 times so far)
06:14:37 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (198 times so far)
06:14:37 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (198 times so far)
06:14:37 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 10 MB to disk (197 times so far)
06:14:38 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 9 MB to disk (45 times so far)
06:14:38 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 23 MB to disk (198 times so far)
06:14:38 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 38 MB to disk (25 times so far)
06:14:38 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 161 MB to disk (25 times so far)
06:14:39 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 0 MB to disk (199 times so far)
06:14:39 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (166 times so far)
06:14:39 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (199 times so far)
06:14:39 ExternalAppendOnlyMap: Spilling in-memory map of 4 MB to disk (200 times so far)
```