Fixing HTTP/2 processed byte accounting during exception

Motivation:
Currently when an exception occurs during a listener.onDataRead
callback, we return all bytes as processed. However, the listener may
choose to return bytes via the InboundFlowState object rather than
returning the integer. If the listener returns a few bytes and then
throws, we will attempt to return too many bytes.

Modifications:
Added InboundFlowState.unProcessedBytes() to indicate how many
unprocessed bytes are outstanding.

Updated DefaultHttp2ConnectionDecoder to compare the unprocessed bytes
before and after the listener.onDataRead callback when an exception was
encountered.  If there is a difference, it is subtracted off the total
processed bytes to be returned to the flow controller.

Result:
HTTP/2 data frame delivery properly accounts for processed bytes through
an exception.