Qt: allow "emergency" shutdown during startup

- allows closing our splash screen to abort startup
Refactor -alertnotify code

Refactor common -alertnotify code into static CAlert::Notify method.
Trigger -alertnotify if network is upgrading without you

This adds a -regetest-only undocumented (for regression testing only)
command-line option -blockversion=N to set block.nVersion.

Adds to the "has the rest of the network upgraded to a
block.nVersion we don't understand" code so it calls
-alertnotify when 51 of the last 100 blocks are up-version.
But it only alerts once, not with every subsequent new, upversion
block.

And adds a forknotify.py regression test to make sure it works.

Tested using forknotify.py:

Before adding CAlert::Notify, get:
Assertion failed: -alertnotify did not warn of up-version blocks

Before adding code to only alert once:
Assertion failed: -alertnotify excessive warning of up-version blocks

After final code in this pull:
Tests successful
Merge pull request #5059

dbca89b Trigger -alertnotify if network is upgrading without you (Gavin Andresen)
e01a793 Refactor -alertnotify code (Gavin Andresen)

Signed-off-by: Gavin Andresen <gavinandresen@gmail.com>
Merge pull request #5032

4bd1185 Qt: allow "emergency" shutdown during startup (Philip Kaufmann)
Add SCRIPT_VERIFY_SIGPUSHONLY (BIP62 rule 2)
Add SCRIPT_VERIFY_MINIMALDATA (BIP62 rules 3 and 4)