allow the opm-parser test to fail

since the module currently calls the tests for cJSON and boost with
the REQUIRED flag set, cmake aborts completely even if opm-parser is
not REQUIRED. For modules which depend on opm-core that's currently a
non-issue because core has a requirement on parser, but the parser may
be useful for external projects as well, so we play nice.

Also, with this patch the config.h variable HAVE_OPM_PARSER is set...
Findopm-parser.cmake: make sure that the ERT libraries are available

and some other minor cleanups to the module. For me it still works,
but this being the build system, I can't guarantee more...
Findopm-parser.cmake: invoke FindBoost unconditionally

even if boost was found previously, it might still miss a few
libraries. thanks to @akva2 for catching this.
Disable search for Boost in parser detection

This changeset disables the effect of commit 1e29dad.  There appears
to be an unforeseen interaction between the calls to

    Find_Package (Boost)

that are implied by module 'opm-parser-prereqs.cmake' and the one
that's directly invoked in 'Findopm-parser.cmake'.  Until the
situation can be fully analysed and a complete solution implemented,
this is a temporary measure to restore the build of opm-core and
downstream OPM modules.
added: hook for conditionally compiled files

backport from opm-upscaling PR#100
Merge pull request #105 from bska/105_cmake

Synchronise build system with OPM-Core